I have just released my book on Amazon for those dealing with loss. This post not just a sales pitch but how to get from A to B. The secret is Focus with effort and believe it will happen.
I started writhing the book last year with the intention to have the book out before 5th year of my wife’s horrendous battle with cancer and death on 6th Ahugust 2017.
I still have two children at home in education , a small bussiness to run and time is a juggling act. I would get up early evry day spend at least one hour a day writting. That was my first hurdle with focus.
Next obstacle was editing of the book. I was keen to finish it but not been focused on content enough. Sent the book to be edited but no luck there. I nearly gave up idea having book published by the 6th.
After the self pity and discouragment few days later I was focused again. Easy to be knocked back in life and give up. My motivation changed : I am doing it for all those who are suffering and in honour to my late wife. I pulled out all the stops and went for it. I had the goal of editing the book myself in one week no matter what it cost me. I woke up early every day about4/5 am did some work untill 9 am then went to work . Came home worked on the book till 9pm every day. Every waking hour was focus on the book to get it done.
Focus is the secret to get what you want TOTAL RESPONSIBILTY. If you know anyone that is grieving it’s a practical book for them understand the loss. During my grief there wasnt a book that helped me hence why I have written it.
If you want the job done FOCUS IS THE SECRET WITH A PERSONAL MOTIVATION.